Join the Us Workshops Online Course by World-Leading Relationship Expert and Founder of the Relational Life Institute, Terry Real

Heal Trauma, Reconnect With Your Partner and Create Ideal Relationships For You and Your Clients

In 5 weeks, you will go from uncovering your trauma responses and triggers to building a long lasting relationship

Explore The 5-Module Pre-recorded Curriculum

One of the powerful things about the Us Workshops is that it’s grounded in Relational Life Therapy principles, which connect the individual context of your personal relationships to the biological, social, and spiritual contexts in which they exist and evolve.

We’ll unpack the events at play in your neurobiology, neurochemistry, and nervous system when your trauma responses are triggered. We’ll dive deeper into the gender scripts and constructs that contribute to the dynamics of your relationship.

And from a broader perspective, we’ll explore how the forces of individualism, patriarchy, and humanity’s disconnection to nature make it harder to sustain closeness in the modern world.

All of these will inform the work you’ll do in the program for a comprehensive, holistic approach that starts at the root of the problem and addresses systemic concerns as a whole.

By the end of this program, you will be able to create a harmonious love relationship; develop life-long relational skills; have lasting inner happiness and peace; feel more whole and connected; and create a better future for yourself and your relationship.

Module 1:

‘You and I’ vs ‘Us’

In the first module, you’ll understand the difference between 'You and I' vs 'Us' consciousness and why it’s important for happiness; and how to build a strong sense of purpose behind working on your relationships. We’ll explore how individualism and patriarchy shape our current world, how relationality has shaped your thinking, and how to start applying relational consciousness.

Module 2

Relational Equality: You Cannot Love from Above or Below

In the second module, you’ll be understanding that “Us” consciousness starts from you—you are no worse or better than others. It’s from this place that you can start practicing relational equality through an observation exercise where you’ll note the moments that shame and grandiosity show up in your life, and how to start intervening in those moments in order to create change.

Module 3

The Adaptive Child: Understanding Your Trauma

For the third module, you’ll be unpacking your trauma through the lens of your Adaptive Child. You’ll pinpoint the specific moments and role models that contributed to the adaptive behaviors you default to when triggered. You’ll gain a clearer picture of what your Dysfunctional Relational Stance looks like, so that you can embody your Wise Adult self in challenging moments.

Module 4

Your Adaptive Child in Relationships

At this point in the course, you’ll be assessing where you are right now in your relationship and understand how your Adaptive Child shows up in them. You’ll explore the different phases in love relationships, as well as the core negative image that you and your partner could have of on another to get clear on your relationship patterns and start learning how to break free from them.

Module 5

Wise Adult in Action: A Journey from Reactivity to Responsibility

In the fifth and final module, you’ll be taking all that you’ve learned so you can put into action your newfound relational consciousness. You’ll learn how to shift from reactivity to responsibility in your thoughts and actions through the skills of repair. And with Fierce Intimacy and Soft Power, you’ll be well on your way to relating and connecting better in your relationship.

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